First Time?! Come...will be fun! 😉
There is a first time for everything!
We have all been once a beginner at everything we do. Famously, the first time we do something is remembered as the best time or, at least the most memorable time, for years to come. Here is how to make that true of meeting an escort. Included TIPS to help with your selection of a companion, ease your nervousness when it comes time to meet one another, how maximize your satisfaction from the experience, and to make the lovely lady tickled to have made your acquaintance and you hers.
I recommend taking your time selecting a companion, keeping in mind that many quality companions require some days notice to schedule, and that this experience should be like a small vacation for you! You wouldn’t schedule your precious free time on a whim or even hastily. Remember also (you will like this one) that there are many women to chose from, especially in a medium or large city. If I were to be searching for an escort in Athens, I can easily imagine myself browsing ads for a week or more. Eventually, that stand-out-must-have woman will be spotted!
How To Get Lucky
No escort says yes to every invitation she receive!
First impressions are important. For this you will need proper screening items and an introduction as to who you are is always helpful and sometimes required.
Make sure you have read her website entirely, focusing on her requirements (Time, location and duration of date), and her screening-contact form. You can save yourself a lot of time by checking her calendar before inviting her to meet you when she is half a world away. Escorts travel- a lot!
In your introductory email, or when you fill out her appointment form, make sure to include all of her requirements, your screening info which will be (in case o incall) your employment information since you are new to this. This information will be used to stalk you at your workplace and sold to a sophisticated ring of identity thieves and time wasters.
So, seriously: escorts are trained in discretion. I have always believed that If you have a secret, an escort is the only one you can 100% trust with it.
Besides, there are checks and balances in place in the escort industry. A lady who is indiscreet would quickly be outed. And remember- you have done your homework so you can be confident in the discretion of your selection.
In case of hotels or home visits an escort often she will be ok with your legal name.In case she hosts you at her incall place most they ask for the field and place of your work.A high class escort always prioritize her safety over anything else!
If you find yourself feeling nervous, ask the lady to delete your information after verification. While they can feel impersonal to this personal endeavor, Contact Forms are often encrypted and auto deleted.
Groom like you would for any first date!
I suggest some extra trimming and shaving in two areas but no need to go bald. Wear whatever makes you comfortable. Buy a bottle of wine to share with your soon to be lady friend, if you think it will help you to relax.
It’s the day of your date. You’re nervous and excited. Or you aren’t nervous at all but just looking forward to what you hope is a good time, with some skepticism perhaps. Either way there is an etiquette to all of this.
When you arrive at her place or when she arrives at yours, take care of payment right away. This is important and there is a very specific way to to do it:
- If she is coming to your place, it is customary to put the envelope with her fees on the bathroom vanity. Invite her to use the bathroom when she arrives. She will want to freshen up for you besides.
- If you are going to her place, simply come in, take off your coat, and place the envelope on the table, plainly in view.
- Some escorts have different ways they like to receive payment. That is why reading her entire website before meeting her always works to your benefit.
Your next move is to wash your hands at minimum, or take a shower at maximum. If you are hosting, you can have this done beforehand. If she is hosting, even if you have recently showered, it is important to wash your hands. This is very often overlooked in my experience. I chalk it up to the old ‘boys will be boys’ adage. (I was surprised when realized that the saying was applicable to not only boys but men as well. Sorry, guys. I still love ya).
Hygiene is of paramount importance. If it has been an eight-hour work day when you meet, a shower is in order. Hand washing is always in order. The safest way to play, according to my research, is for both parties to shower before and after the encounter.
Letting Your Hair Down
Don’t forget that this is finally YOUR TIME..! What a concept! Want a shoulder rub, a bath, to be tied to the chandelier or to dance naked on the bed? Just ask for it. Request a fantasy outfit or one you like from the pictures. Let things flow naturally or follow her lead. Have fun! For your comfort, it is customary for many escorts to have available at their In Call offer such things as fresh fruit or other snacks, bottled water, wine, and even toiletries for men. Come with what you need as there is, of course, not a universal standard here.
If everything went well, you should feel slightly elated and urges to smile throughout the day. Maybe your heart had a flash of longing as soon as she walked out the door and down the hall (totally normal and fleeting). You’re wondering when you can see her again. You feel lighter knowing you are never obligated to!